Damnit woman, I can see that you are hiding a binkie behind your back and I don't like it one bit. I think I shall cry continuously until you give it back to me, that is a threat. How ya like me now.....
You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You're on your own and you know what you know. And YOU are the one who'll decide where to go.